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Helping Others Has Helped Me
By Tara L. Fraley, The Virginia Gazette, Williamsburg

Wednesday, March 27, 2002

YORK - In a poem written two years ago entitled “Wish List,” I penned the items I would like most to accomplish during my lifetime. Among things like “climb one of Egypt’s Pyramids,” “understand God,” and “write a novel” is “feed, clothe, and house a homeless person.”

How often have you been to Washington, New York, or Chicago and seen homeless people lying on the ground bundled in thick, old clothing with their belongings in a rusted shopping cart? Perhaps you have seen them standing on a street corner, fingers protruding through torn gloves, holding a tin cup in hopes of a compassionate person’s help. In an effort to cross this item off my list, I began thinking of things I could do to help a person who has no place to live.

My first idea was to travel to one of the major cities and spend a week in some type of service devoted to the homeless. Unfortunately, I soon realized that this plague affecting more than 500,000 Americans exists right here on the Peninsula. After inquiring of various social service organizations, my efforts landed me at the doorstep of St. Paul’s Episcopal Church in Newport News. For 10 years, St. Paul’s has coordinated efforts to feed a hot meal to the homeless every Saturday afternoon.

Pat Morrell, coordinator of the Saturday ministry, greeted the volunteer group by discussing the harsh reality that the homeless face each day. “These people are not only cold on the outside. They are also cold on the inside. They have no place to go, and this is an opportunity for us to feed their physical bodies but also warm their souls,” she said as the group listened intently.

We were instructed to give plenty of food to each individual, because for some, Morrell emphasized, “This is their only meal for the day.” Over the next 2 ½ hours we baked chicken, cut fresh fruit, brewed tea, sautéed vegetables and prepared yams.

As the noon hour approached, final arrangements were made by placing utensils, napkins and cups at the tables for the guests to be served by the volunteers.

About an hour earlier, I had noticed through a window that the homeless were already lining up at the door. I thought back to Morrell’s words, that this would be the only meal for some of them.

As they filtered through the door and found seats, I noticed that some were carrying all their belongings in sacks. I thought, how fortunate I am to have a place to sleep, bathe, cook meals, laugh, weep, and do all the other sacred things that are done in the privacy of what we call “home.”

The Rev. Isabel Steilberg stood up and introduced the volunteers, made announcements, distributed mail and offered a prayer. On this miraculous Saturday morning, I found an appreciation not only for the strength of the homeless, but also for the efforts of St. Paul’s Church.

According to Steilberg, this ministry of assisting the homeless has been in place since the 1980s. In a recent Sunday school lesson, members of the church, who range from the homeless to business executives to surgeons, listened as she stressed, “God is very concerned about our physical needs.”

This attitude is evident in the ministry for the homeless, which extends beyond the Saturday feeding to include a hot meal and entertainment every Friday night, bagged meals on Sunday, temporary shelter through the program PORT, an address to receive mail, the use of laundry facilities, and education in life planning.

“When you work with people less fortunate than yourself, it makes you thankful for what you have regardless of the trials you may be faced with,” said Morrell, who has been confined to a wheelchair for 10 years. According to her, volunteers have made a great difference.

In my short two months of helping, Williamsburg has been represented well with the following groups volunteering time: Toano Middle School’s National Junior Honor Society, St. Stephen Lutheran Church, Bruton Parish Church, and William & Mary’s Hunger Awareness.

Volunteer opportunities include donating food and providing shelter for the PORT program, among others. Recently, children from Bruton Parish Church made centerpieces for the tables and decorated rolls of table covering with spring and Easter drawings.

After my first Saturday morning at St. Paul’s, I drove home and thought about crossing off another item from my life’s Wish List. Instead, I made it a permanent fixture on my weekly “to do” list. Truly, I have discovered the power of helping the less fortunate, and at the same time found a church to call my spiritual home.


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